So, it is my weekend with the kids, and these are my favorite days! I love getting to play with them and take them places without the worry of having to rush them to be with their dad.
Well, since I have started my new job, I really never know when I might have to work. It’s one of those jobs that when they say they need me, I have to be there. And really, I don’t mind because it’s not interfered yet with my time with the kids.
Tomorrow, I have to work. So, I ask my ex if he can switch days with me and keep them tomorrow. I’m not sure why I was so surprised by his response, I’ve heard it many times before over the coarse of our marriage, but I was surprised.
He first decided to tell me that he takes the kids everywhere when he has them, and he thinks it’s funny that I can’t handle my own kids. Then he proceeds to inform me that if I can’t handle being a working single mother, I should have stayed with him.
Yes, this indeed got my blood boiling. I’m not much of a yeller, but today I was. I began my defense by saying something like, “Are you f*cking kidding me?” Then I continued with, “For years I had the kids by myself with NO help from you ever! And we were married then! What makes you think I can’t handle my kids? I’ve been taking care of them by myself since they were born!” Yes, people, it’s true. He was not a hands on dad, and that’s okay, he did his best. But to try to tell me that I am inadequate! No sir! I do not think so!
I called him “the biggest assh*le I have ever met” and hung up the phone. People who live in denial and the lies that they build for themselves to feel better are completely absurd. Just for the record, I am a great mom! 🙂